The following is an inspirational story about a little girl who had trouble controlling her temper, but she not only learned how to control it, she also learned the things we say can actually hurt the people we love. Enjoy!
There once was a little girl who could not control her bad temper. So, her mother gave her a bag of nails and told her that every time she lost her temper, she must hammer a nail into the back of the fence.
The first day the girl had driven 37 nails into the fence. Over the next few weeks, as she learned to control her anger, the number of nails she hammered daily gradually dwindled down. She discovered it was easier to hold her temper than to drive those nails into the fence.
Finally the day came when the girl didn’t lose her temper at all. She told her mother about this and her mother suggested that now she pull out one nail for each day that she was able to hold her temper. The days passed and the young girl was finally able to tell her mother that all the nails were gone. The mother then took her daughter by the hand and led her to the fence.
She said, “You have done well, my daughter, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one.” You can stick a knife into a person and draw it out. It won’t matter how many times you say “I’m sorry,” the wound is still there. A verbal wound can be as bad as a physical one.
Always remember your family and friends are rare jewels. So, cherish your friends and family, and be aware of moments when anger or the wrong choice of words may cut deeper than a knife.
Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and evil speaking be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you.
Ephesians 4:31-32 NKJV