My beautiful Tewahedo Orthodox sister, think about the way we prepare ourselves when we are invited somewhere special. When we meet important people, attend an interview, or go somewhere meaningful, we naturally choose our best and present ourselves with care and respect. How much more, then, should we prepare ourselves when we are coming into the house of God?
Entering the church is not something ordinary—it is sacred. It is where we stand before God in prayer, humility, and reverence. Because of this, the way we dress should reflect both respect for His holiness and modesty within ourselves.
As Tewahedo Orthodox young women, we are called to dress modestly and appropriately. This includes wearing a clean, long dress or skirt, along with a netsela that covers the head and body with dignity. The netsela, often white, is not just a cultural garment—it carries spiritual meaning. Many girls also choose to wear an additional head covering, which is a beautiful expression of reverence and obedience.
Our clothing should never be revealing. Cleavage should be fully covered, and outfits should not be tight, sheer, or draw unnecessary attention. We are called to reflect modesty, purity, and humility in how we present ourselves before God.
This practice is rooted in Scripture. As it is written:
“Every woman who prays… with her head uncovered dishonors her head.” (1 Corinthians 11:5, NKJV)
This is not simply about appearance, but about the posture of the heart—humility, respect, and honoring God’s order.
It is also important to be mindful that clothing such as jeans, leggings (worn alone), shorts, tank tops, or tight-fitting outfits are not appropriate for church. However, leggings or pants may be worn underneath your dress or skirt if needed, for comfort and modesty.
But above all, my sister, remember this: while our outward appearance matters, God looks at the heart. Come to church with purity, with reverence, and with a sincere desire to worship Him. Let your clothing reflect the beauty of a heart that is devoted to Christ.
May we always carry ourselves with grace, modesty, and dignity as daughters of the Tewahedo Orthodox Church.
Selam Seyoum